Amy Langford
Certified Marriage & Intimacy Life Coach
Passionate about helping couples create thriving relationships. Married 26 years to her best friend with benefits. Mother to 4 emerging adult children and one son-in-law. Loves reading, horseback riding, vacations, growing all types of plants, live music, game nights and just being with her family.
Greg Langford
Marriage & Intimacy Life Coach
All about cutting through the bs so couples can actually enjoy their marriage. Proud Dad- loudest one at all his kid's events. Loves western pleasure horseback riding, college football, Nascar, building projects, driving his truck and anytime spent with his hot wife.
We’re just a regular couple, no extraordinary gifts or talents, who genuinely enjoy being together despite our many fundamental differences.
Greg speaks his mind directly, is openly and friendly and makes everyone feel welcome. He enjoys small talk and no one is a stranger. I am quiet, more likely to listen and observe than speak, and deeply loyal to my family, friends and clients. I relish every deep connecting conversation and survive small talk.
My nightstand is always piled high with books to satisfy my yearning to learn, while Greg gets his insights from listening to people.
I thrive on tidiness, organization, and planning, whereas Greg prefers spontaneity, creativity and freedom.
I enjoy buying all types of plants and caring for them daily. I love witnessing the slow process of growth. While Greg finds joy in zooming on his ride-on mower to finish the mowing as fast as possible.
I am in the details, he sees the big picture.
In physical intimacy, I am the lower desire and more responsive style, while Greg is spontaneous higher desire.
Our differences, especially around physical intimacy, used to feel like a chasm between us, leading to power struggles and conflicts over who was more right.
However, we’ve come to realize that these differences are not just points of division but also the very elements that make us a great team. Each of us balances the other out, bringing complementary strengths to our relationship- a true yin and yang.
While navigating our differences has been really challenging, it has also taught us that embracing and understanding these differences can strengthen our connection and intimacy.
In the end, it’s our ability to make room for each other’s contrasting traits and desires that allows us to grow together as a couple.