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By: Amy Langford on Sep 24, 2024 12:00:00 AM
Eroticism is often misunderstood, reduced to a list of sexual acts or fantasy. But true eroticism goes much deeper. It’s not just about what you do in the bedroom; it’s about how you engage with life and connect with your own passions and desires.
Eroticism is more than just sexual desire. It’s an expression of your individuality, creativity, and passions. It’s the “life force” that makes you feel vibrant and engaged. Eroticism can manifest in various ways beyond sexuality, such as:
Identifying and nurturing this eros energy—your innate creativity and expression—can enhance your connection with yourself and your spouse.
Without eroticism, marriage can become routine and transactional. Eroticism adds a spark of passion, creativity, and vitality. Here’s why it’s crucial:
Esther Perel, in Mating in Captivity, explains this balance perfectly: “For thriving couples, there is no dissonance between commitment and excitement, responsibility and playfulness. They can buy a home and be naughty in it. They can be parents and still be lovers.”
Finding the right balance between love and eroticism can transform your marriage into a relationship that is both secure and alive.
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